“In my personal point of view, it really depends who I am going out with. If the person is a little bit conservative and appreciates if their date pays for the meal, I don’t mind paying. It also depends on whether they are a few years younger than me as that could indicate how much they make. If I think I make more money, then I should offer to pay.
“But if the person takes a more progressive view in life and is an egalitarian, I will go Dutch with them. Or I can pay for the dinner and they can pay for the dessert or drinks at the next location.
“With that said, some people on the Internet put forth a very good argument about how much women spend on their makeup and hair to look good for their dates. One post I read details how women spend three figures on their looks every month, so it’s only ‘natural’ for men to pay on the first date. Well, not everyone is the same. But it’s something to consider. All in all, it depends on what kind of value you expect from a partner. However, we should spend within our means when we go on dates. Having fun shouldn’t break the bank! — Wan Xiang, 28